Kaitlin Rai, MA, RCC, CCC
Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC)
She/Her
Virtual

Licensed in: British Columbia, Alberta, Saskatchewan, Manitoba, Newfoundland and Labrador, Northwest Territories, Nunavut, Yukon

Education: Yorkville University

Top Specialties: Complex Trauma & Childhood Trauma, Attachment & Relationship Issues, Anxiety/depression & Emotional Regulation, Grief & Loss, Family & Parent-Teen Relationships

Age Groups: Children (12-15 with parental consent), Teens (16–17), Young Adults (18–24), Adults (25–64), Parents/Caregivers, Couples, Families

Fee: $175

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When you feel stuck in patterns that don't make sense, there's usually a reason. Many of the people I work with have been carrying something for a long time. On the outside, they often look capable, successful, and like they're holding everything together. Underneath, they may feel anxious, overwhelmed, disconnected, stuck in the same relationship patterns, or exhausted from trying to manage emotions that don't seem to make sense. Some clients come to therapy knowing their experiences are connected to trauma. Others simply know that something isn't shifting, despite years of insight, self-reflection, or trying to "work on themselves". What they have in common is a sense that there's something deeper underneath the symptoms.

I specialize in complex trauma, attachment wounds, and relational patterns. My work goes beyond symptom management to help clients understand how their experiences have shaped the way they relate to themselves, others, and the world around them. I integrate EMDR, Narrative Therapy, parts work, family systems, and attachment-based approaches to support meaningful change and broaden capacity for the more intense emotions. Together, we work to understand patterns with curiosity rather than judgment, recognizing that many of the struggles we experience today once served a purpose. Before becoming a counsellor, I spent over a decade working alongside youth and families navigating complex trauma, gang involvement, sexual exploitation, family conflict, justice system involvement, and significant life transitions. Alongside my professional training, I bring lived experience with many of the themes that show up in my work, including grief, family complexity, and navigating life's harder seasons. These experiences continue to shape the way I show up, with compassion, authenticity, and a deep respect for the resilience people carry.

Expertise & Info

General Expertise In:

Trauma & PTSD
Depression
Anxiety
Stress & Burnout
Relationship Issues
Family Conflict / Parenting
Life Transitions
Grief & Loss
ADHD
Emotional Regulation
Mood
Infidelity Recovery
Perfectionism
Leadership / High-Performer Mental Health
Separation / Divorce
Imposter Syndrome
Youth in Care
Adoptive Families

Treatment Approaches:

EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy)

EMDR, Relationship / family modalities

Family Systems / Bowen

Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT)

Trauma & somatic

Attachment-based therapy

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Culturally responsive therapy

Psychodynamic / Psychoanalytic

Insurances Accepted:

Canada Life
GreenShield
Empire Life
RBC Insurance
SSQ Insurance
Cash Pay (No Insurance)
Beneva
BPA
Canada Life – PSHCP
Canadian Construction Workers Union
Chambers of Commerce Group Insurance Plan
CINUP
ClaimSecure
Coughlin & Associates Ltd.
D.A. Townley
Desjardins Insurance
Equitable
First Canadian
GroupSource
Industrial Alliance
Johnston Group
LiUNA Local 183
LiUNA Local 506
Manion
Maximum Benefit
People Corporation
RWAM
Simply Benefits
TELUS AdjudiCare
Union Benefits

Licensure & Fees

Professional Designation: Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and Certified Canadian Counsellor (CCC)

Location: British Columbia & Across Canada (Virtual Services)

Session Fees: $175

Insurance receipts are provided. Direct billing available where applicable.

Testimonials
Clients are saying...

"I'd tried therapy before but never felt like we got to the root of things. Kaitlin helped me understand that a lot of what I was experiencing made sense given what I'd been carrying. The EMDR work especially has been life-changing - things are finally shifting." - Y.K., British Columbia Client

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Q&A

Outside of therapy, you’ll often find me…
With good friends, my dog, or at a restaurant with good food. Either that or outdoors, ideally with a view.
Something that brings me joy is…
My dog, good food, traveling, and weekends that involve nature. Bonus points if all four overlap somehow.
A book, quote, or idea I often return to is…
Two things I keep coming back to: Lindsay C. Gibson's observation that if someone wants to understand you, it doesn't matter how you say it — and if someone doesn't want to understand you, it doesn't matter how you say it either. And the idea that trauma happens in relationship, and therefore must be healed there too. Both show up in my work more than I can say.
British Columbia
Alberta
Saskatchewan
Manitoba
Newfoundland and Labrador
Northwest Territories
Nunavut
Yukon
Canada Life
GreenShield
Empire Life
RBC Insurance
SSQ Insurance
Cash Pay (No Insurance)
Beneva
BPA
Canada Life – PSHCP
Canadian Construction Workers Union
Chambers of Commerce Group Insurance Plan
CINUP
ClaimSecure
Coughlin & Associates Ltd.
D.A. Townley
Desjardins Insurance
Equitable
First Canadian
GroupSource
Industrial Alliance
Johnston Group
LiUNA Local 183
LiUNA Local 506
Manion
Maximum Benefit
People Corporation
RWAM
Simply Benefits
TELUS AdjudiCare
Union Benefits
Trauma & PTSD
Depression
Anxiety
Stress & Burnout
Relationship Issues
Family Conflict / Parenting
Life Transitions
Grief & Loss
ADHD
Emotional Regulation
Mood
Infidelity Recovery
Perfectionism
Leadership / High-Performer Mental Health
Separation / Divorce
Imposter Syndrome
Youth in Care
Adoptive Families
Child (12-15)
Youth (16-17)
Adult (18+)
Parents/Caregivers
Couples (18+)
Families
If you are having a mental health emergency, call 911, The National Suicide and Crisis Helpline at 988, or go to your local ER